Worthiness is defined as having adequate or great merit, character or value.
If we feel unworthy in life it is difficult to achieve as much as we would have liked. A lack of self-worth or the feeling of having very little or no self-worth can lead to many problems in our relationships, work and other parts of our lives.
Life presents us with many moments where we feel like we have to ‘prove’ our worth and this may lead to us feeling even more unworthy than before.
There are many tests during our school years, which shape how we feel about ourselves. If we do well then we feel like we are achievers and we can do anything. If we do badly at a subject or multiple subjects we feel like we can’t do anything right, we are deflated, angry or unworthy of success in that area.
We are tested in relationships and if they fail or things sour we may feel dejected, unworthy and unlovable.
If we are passed up for a promotion at work or we do not get the job we applied for we may feel unworthy of success.
There are so many examples of opportunities where the unworthiness dragon may rear his ugly head.
These feelings add up and we end up feeling self-conscious about aspects of ourselves and our lives.
This can chip away at us and we can be ‘programmed’ to expect to feel unworthy, but today I’d like to let you know that you are completely worthy.
You are completely worthy of happiness, you are completely worthy of a good bill of health, you are worthy of being in a loving relationship, you are worthy of having every good thing in your life.
Your worth is within you, you just have to remind yourself of this sometimes.
Your worth is who you are, not what job or possessions you have.
You are valuable and no-one else can add the same value to the world as you.
Don’t be afraid to embrace your uniqueness and your quirks, all of us have a few.
By affirming that you are worthy you admit this to your inner self and attract more worthiness and positive feelings that come from accepting and loving yourself unconditionally.
Increasing your self-worth and claiming it outright is a journey, which starts with one step.
Let’s take the first step together right now.
Love and Blessings,